Sex in your 40s can feel more confident, connected, and satisfying. Learn how desire changes, what to expect, and simple ways to keep intimacy fulfilling.

Twice a month is a common baseline, experts say. That statistic depends slightly on age: 40- and 50-year-olds tend to fall around that baseline.Read more

Some women do experience an increased libido in their 40s, but typically none of this can be related to a hormonal change of anything going on in the body.Read more

Sep 29, 2023 — Older adults still have plenty of sex. Thirty percent told AARP researchers that they have sex weekly, 27 percent said monthly or less, and 40 percent reported ..

With simple adjustments, physical intimacy after 40, 50, 60 and beyond can feel as satisfying as ever, maybe better—and deepen the love you share ...Read more

40 is not old. I say that so you understand that if he wants sex every day now, he will likely want sex once a day for the next 10-15 years.Read more

May 3, 2023 — The 12 Rules for Casual Sex in Your 40s · 1. Keep It Light · 2. The Campsite Rule · 3. Don't Let Them Meet the Kids · 4. Be Clear on Socials That ...Read more

Sep 4, 2012 — Sexual satisfaction often depends on emotional closeness and clear communication between partners. Feeling 'in sync' can enhance intimacy and ...Read more

Yes and why not ? It all depends on find a suitable partner, approaching him/her and being successful. The journey could be longer, ...Read more

Sep 7, 2021 — Various women reveal why sex after 40 can be better than ever. You may be surprised to learn that you have more confidence and so enjoy sex ...

Apr 29, 2022 — To answer your question, is 40 really too old to have sex? No, NO, NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. I am 42, my husband is also 42, we've been together for ...Read more

Jun 14, 2024 — 15 Unexpected Things That Will Make Sex Wildly Better For You In Your 40s And Beyond · 1. Ask for help with things outside the bedroom. · 2. Ask ...Read more

May 3, 2017 — Men in their 40s want to be in bed with someone who's confident about their body, their sexuality, and the experience.Read more

Jun 20, 2019 — No, there isn't one answer to the question of how long should sex last in your 40s. But there are some important things to note.

Jul 9, 2023 — 2-3 times a week on average - definitely more than in my 30s, which was generally once a week. My sex drive has increased in the last year ...Read more

Dec 25, 2024 — For women aged 40, having intercourse every 4 days is considered a healthy frequency. Sexual activity not only brings joy but also contributes ...Read more

Jun 9, 2025 — Your sex drive changes as you age. Hormones, other health problems, and the business of life can affect your libido. Find out what changes ...

Dec 8, 2016 — I asked women over 40 to weigh in on the best things about intimacy and fun in the bedroom once you close the door on your 30s.Read more

Jul 14, 2022 — Think your sex life gets less exciting after 40? Hardly. Therapists say like other areas of your life, it's possible it's just getting good.